HOW THE TRADITIONAL WEDDING CEREMONY IS PERFORMED IN GHANA

On the set date the groom and his family, along with invited guests show up early at the bride’s house. The groom’s family knocks at the door/gate by saying ‘agoo’ to which the bride’s family responds ‘amee’. The groom’s family sits on one side, while the bride’s family sits on the other side facing each other. The ceremony begins with a short prayer. 

Introduction of each family member

Each family appoints a family linguist (Abusua Kyeamee) who serves as the spokesperson. The linguist of the bride’s family asks the groom’s family their mission. The linguist of the groom’s family responds briefly that they came to seek the hand of the bride in marriage.

The linguists introduces each family member present. The groom’s family is introduced first because they are the ‘visitors’. 

Presentation of items

The groom’s family begins by presenting the dowry and all the other items on the list one, by one. At each stage, the items are checked to make sure everything asked on the list is being presented.

Negotiation is possible if the groom’s family feels too much is being asked of them.The bride is not present in all of these proceedings. The groom, although present, is not required to speak in all of these proceedings as all the speaking and negotiation is done on his behalf by the designated spokesperson from his family...http://www.juvitafrica.com